Feeling Safe in Your Relationship Monogamy- really? With all the freedom and hot tub parties and popularity of hookup sites like Tinder, why do most people come crawling back to Monogamy, even here in the world capitol of Open relationships? Whether it’s Polyamory, where several people all agree to be in a committed, sexual relationship or open marriage where you both agree it’s ok to have sex with other people, those kinds of agreements can work for a small percentage of people and that’s ...read more

Mind blowing…off the charts…over the top…OMG… I came 20 times! When it comes to sex, the driving force for men and women seems to be how to achieve the best, and the most, orgasms possible. While I would argue that connection is really the most important factor in having great sex, orgasms (alone or with a partner) are worthy of an exalted place in your sexual repertoire. ...read more

I’m doing an interview later today with the CBC (Canadian Broadcasting Company) for a documentary they are doing about being single today and how things have changed. I will be commenting on why people CHOOSE to be single, and the benefits they experience making that choice for their lives.  We will be talking about a wide range of options people now have and that one choice is no better then another- just different. ...read more